I feel stuck and uninspired…
July 24th, 2008 | Published in Authenticity In Entrepreneurship | 5 Comments
Yes - Me - I feel stuck and unispired. UGH. I hate that feeling - and worse - I hate pressuring myself to NOT feel that way. You know what they say, what we resist persists…
This week, in my e-zine, I wrote about needing help and being vulnerable. I talked about how we all need help sometimes, and that as healers and business owners, it’s ok to need that help, it’s ok to be vulnerable, and it’s ok to reach out for support. So in the interest of being vulnerable and authentic, here I am - being authentic and telling you that I just feel stuck this week.
I was sitting at my desk yesterday wondering what I was going to blog about. And I kept thinking, and thinking, and I looked at my inspiration file, and I visited some networking groups to see what others were talking about… I thought about my Effective Newsletter class… but inspiration continued to elude me. So I shelved the project for a little while, thinking that stepping away from it might help.
Well now, here we are today, and I’m banging my head against the desk wondering what the heck to write about. And then - as if ironically - inspiration struck!
My friend (and coach) Mark Silver wrote a great e-zine article this week about trying to accomplish marketing tasks while in a bad mood. In that article, Mark offers a simple Sufi teaching: Always be in authentic service. Always.
Today, my translation of that teaching is - talk to everyone about the fact that you feel stuck and uninspired!
The truth is, I love to write. I love to talk, I love to help people, and network, and share. But there are times - like this week - where no matter how good things are going, I just feel stuck when it comes to writing or sharing or speaking.
When feelings like this crop up - and I have the sense to slow down and listen to them instead of rebelling against them - I notice that there is a message for me here.
Instead of continuing to resist this feeling, I sank into it and asked what my heart is really needing.
Ya know what I need? A break!! I haven’t had a true, honest to goodness day completely off of work (aside from weekends that have been UBER busy) yet this summer. Wow.
So guess what?? My daughter doesn’t have summer camp tomorrow, I’m getting a brand new bike (yay!) so I think I’m going to take the day - no - the weekend OFF.
If you find yourself coming up against a rocky emotion, take some time to sink into it and ask what it’s trying to teach you. Our emotions are always great pointers to tell us if we’re moving toward or away from what we really want. So if you’ve got a strong one, listen.

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July 24th, 2008 at 2:14 pm (#)
Great post Jenn! You are absolutely right on with this post. Sometimes we are trying so hard to find the “answer” that if we just listen, we will find it. And I think sometimes we resist taking a break, because we feel that leaves us vulnerable to “something bad” or we will miss something. And that is just our ego talking when those thoughts come up…that is not our heart. We need to enjoy life in other ways too not just in work. Now don’t get me wrong…I know that you love your work and so do I however, it doesn’t mean that we can’t take some well deserved time off!
Congratulations on the new bike…sounds like fun….go and enjoy your bike ride.
Your friend,
Teresa Morrow
July 24th, 2008 at 4:19 pm (#)
Awesome post, Jenn. This does happen periodically, inevitably. And, as is usually the case with our groups, I’ve been pondering Lisa’s statement/question “What is the rhythm here?” I will be writing a response to this very soon, but I think it fits right in with our resistance and perception that we are unproducive, or that periods of blah-ness are soemhow negative. It’s just a shifting of gears…
July 24th, 2008 at 9:27 pm (#)
It’s always tough to feel stuck and uninspired and the pressure we put on ourselves to stop feeling that way definitely makes it worse.
You deserve some time off.
Enjoy your weekend!
July 25th, 2008 at 11:00 am (#)
Wonderful insight from you ladies
Teresa - I agree… when we have these periods of un-productivity, we tend to push harder thinking that’s a bad thing.
But the truth is - we need a break… even from the activities that we love. You need to rest. Your body needs it, your brain needs it… it’s just plain good for you.
And Gina, I love what Lisa has to say about rhythm. She’s all about honoring ourselves and what we’re experiencing - can’t wait to see your response.
Oh - and for those of you that don’t know Lisa yet, you can check her out here:
http://www.ExtraordinaryWomenThive.com
I’m going to go ask her if her ears are burning
LOL!
July 25th, 2008 at 11:01 am (#)
Oh yeah… didn’t I say I was taking today off?!? LOL!!! I am - I just have a couple of things that I do have to get done - due to deadlines… but then I’m outta here, I swear!!